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Julius Sese's avatar

This has helped shade light on a few things . Definitely sharing this with my friends !

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Erin 'Ezippy''s avatar

Really enjoyed this one, Israa! Definitely plan on sharing it with someone about to embark on a life milestone.

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Israa Nasir's avatar

I’m really glad to hear that! I’ve gotten mixed reviews on this one - what resonated the most with you?

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Erin 'Ezippy''s avatar

All of it resonated with me, honestly. The part that if life ceased to exist today, the universe would carry on. That midlife is just as relevant of a time to ask ourselves, "what's left, who am I, and what do I want to be when I grow?" like it is when we are leaving high school. Normalize asking ourselves those questions even when we are turning 70 or 80! The whole idea about life being meaningless so figuring out what's meaningful to us as individuals -- 1000%. But embracing the craziness of uncertainty and life, just because we can embrace it, doesn't mean we can't change it and decide not settle for someone else's definition of fulfillment.

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Shafa Yahya's avatar

I couldn't be more grateful to have stumbled upon this article at a time when I was starting to lose hope. You revived my spirits, Israa. Thank you!

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Israa Nasir's avatar

I love to hear that! I’m always so grateful for pieces of writings I come across that shift something within me and I’m glad to offer you the same ♥️

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Reema Farhat's avatar

One of my favorite reads! 🥰

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Israa Nasir's avatar

Thank you so much! I really enjoyed writing it as well and glad it's resonating with people :)

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mariana's avatar

Such a good read! You put together a great list that allows me to ask the big questions and remember what unnecessary meaning we give to meaningless things, sometimes. like a filter that helps you obtain clarity. Always love your work, but this one has been one of my favorites.

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Christina Bubba's avatar

for an article largely based around existentialism, there are such hopeful undertones. i love it. it's so human to get lost in finding the meaning that we forget that we are the meaning. such a great reminder. thank you for your words!

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